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10 Places to Visit For the First Time Solo As A Black Female

I am always asked what countries are safe to travel as a black solo female. If we are real with each other, being a black female in this world can be extremely hard sometimes. So, it always makes sense when I’m asked what countries are safe to travel solo for the first time! I recently spoke on Travelling Perceptions & Safety: Why I don’t Allow the Experiences Stop me From Seeing The World?

As I said in that post and will say again … the media often likes to label black females, particularly in certain countries, that I won’t point out. We are often labelled as prostitutes, or even worst ghettoized for the colour of our skin. The melanin can be hard for them to handle sometimes.

When I travel by myself I never feel like I’m on my own. I have never really understood why, but I believe it’s because I always end up meeting someone on my solo travels. That’s not to say that I don’t emphasise with people that travel solo for the first time. I can imagine if you haven’t travelled solo before, it can be quite daunting. There are several countries or even places you can visit solo as a black female.

My cousin suggested that I write a post on places black females feel safe to travel too. So as I do. I have tapped into 10 black female travel bloggers, who share places they themselves felt safe travelling too! If you are a black female seeking to travel solo for the first time, I’m sure this post is for you. 

The melanin can be hard for them to handle sometimes.

10 Places You Should Travel Solo For the First Time As a Black Female Traveller

1. Char of Memoirs and Musings says – Dubai

Dubai is safe because the crime rate is low. You won’t find much petty crime here because it’s not a walkable city. Unwanted attention does exist but it’s more common in Deira and Bur Dubai. I’ve been to Dubai twice solo and not had any issues! ???

2. Aitza of Petitely Packaged says – Porto

As the second-largest city in Portugal, Porto offers a friendly and vibrant atmosphere. From wine tours in the Douro Valley, hiking at a nearby national park, hopping on a boat, or simply eating one’s way through the city their countless activities to meet people or get lost on your own in Porto. The public transportation is easy to navigate and English widely is spoken, so even if you find yourself unintentionally lost you likely won’t need Google to translate.

3. L of Franglais27 Tales says – Paris

Central Paris is rather compact and so it is easy to navigate by foot which makes it relatively safe for a solo woman traveller. Plus, there are lots of museums, galleries and other sights that are easy to visit or cinemas as well. There are also neighbouring cafés and restaurants in most locations meaning that it would not involve a long journey if venturing out in the evenings. You would just have to be as vigilant as you would be in London when travelling alone.

4. Elisha of Elisha Jade says – Shanghai and Bejing

I felt super safe in Shanghai and Beijing. Whether I was riding in the back of a tuk-tuk at 4 am or jumping on the metro, the Chinese metropolises were very secure. It is a surveillance state so you do trade off privacy for that sense of security.

5. Chi of Thoughts Of Chi says – Prague

I believe that Prague is safe due to it being a popular destination for tourists so it’s rare for you to feel secluded during a solo trip. Also from my trip, the attraction staff are very accommodating for solo travellers in terms of taking pictures of you and giving you in-depth talks about the city in general.

Also, the fact that there are a ton of attractions to go throughout the city and the transport links are reliable and easy to use.

6. Tay of TaytheTravelista says – Cartagena

I recently took my very first solo trip and as nervous as I was I couldn’t have made a better choice of destination – Cartagena. The people are extremely warm and welcoming and although they don’t speak much English, the love is felt! The streets are ALWAYS full of people, so you never really feel “alone”; and Uber/taxi makes it very easy to get around the city.

Cartagena is also very budget-friendly, so paying full price for things you’d normally split with a friend isn’t a big deal. Not to mention, Cartagena is pretty popular among solo travellers so the likelihood of you connecting with other solo travellers is extremely high. Just an FYI – you will fall head over heels in love with the place!!!

7. Joyce of Diy With Joy says – Phucket

I travelled to Phuket, Thailand for the ultimate solo birthday trip and purposely chose to stay in Patong for the first half of my trip as this beach resort town is famously known for its bustling nightlife, variety of activities, markets and plenty of restaurants. Although I was by myself, I never really felt alone because I met a lot of friendly faces from around the world and the Thai locals made me feel welcomed into their country. I felt really safe venturing out at night, often strolling through the night markets and had my first solo nightlife experience in Phuket which was surprisingly amazing!

8. Ri of Ri The Blog says – Colombia

I thought Colombia was safe because there was constantly police around everywhere (granted its Colombia they could be corrupt cops). The people seemed so relaxed about their belongings and that that to me was a sign that the city didn’t have problems with petty crime.

9. Tateendah of Footprints and Poetry says Tanzania

I found Tanzanians really friendly, no one catcalled me either in Dar Es Salaam or Zanzibar which is very rare. I didn’t book any tours and the resort I stayed in the capital helped me to arrange them, in Zanzibar they even walked me to the beach for my prison island tour.

Someone even offered to go with me to the South Island (as they were also going there) so I can get on the right public transport but I couldn’t stay that long. People were open to conversation if they spoke English, from the restaurants to the taxi drivers. The only issues I had was trying to convince people I don’t speak Swahili.

10. Victoria of The Stylish Trotter says Japan

I went to Japan solo but meeting people was a breeze with Couchsurfing & I felt so safe. This country is one of the most safest countries in the world because it is indeed safe. Transportation is accessible & easy. People are very cordial in Japan and you don’t feel people staring at you because you are a foreigner and black. It’s a win-win all around in my book.

Oh and one more! It wouldn’t be right if I didn’t suggest one of my own countries right?

Adebola of MyBreakingViews says Singapore

I think ya’ll get tired of me speaking about Singapore. It was the first country I travelled too as a student and to some degree as a solo traveller. As a student, I ended up living there with no trouble for 7 months! Honestly, Singapore has been the most welcoming country for me as a black female! I went back again this year after six years and couldn’t believe how welcoming it was. I wasn’t bothered when I walked around the city by myself.

P.S Get yourself some durian and tell me what you think? hahaha

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11 Travel Bloggers Reveal Their Hotel Rituals

The hotel you stay in can make or break a holiday! I and Char from Memories & Musings were interested in finding out what type of hotel traveller you are – bougie, budget or boutique (no judgements here, we promise). So we have collaborated together and have asked a few bloggers what their hotel rituals are.  

I myself have stayed in many hotels, all of which fit into all three categories.  And as I no longer live with the parents, and must pay my own bills. I now like to enjoy a bougie stay, whilst remaining within budget!   

The first thing I usually do when I get to a hotel is a room tour and if there are any tiles I check those because they let you know how clean a hotel is! Trust me if your tiles are dirty – your bathroom hasn’t been cleaned in a while! Yuck! 

As I said before, I’ve stayed in all kind of places lol! I will have to write a separate post for that but I think the most favourite hotel I’ve stayed in must be the Marina Bay Sands Hotel in Singapore. Why? Because it has an amazing infinity pool – and if you haven’t seen it I would suggest adding to your bucket list.  If I can I would love to go back to Vegas with bae and stay at the Paris Las Vegas Hotel or Bali and stay at AYANA Resort and Spa.

To book my hotel stays I usually tap into Booking.com it has so many benefits, one being that you can pay for the hotel when you arrive. The other important benefit is being able to share discount codes with your friends and family. If you would like and if you would like a discount then head over to Freebies & Deals.

Natasha & Mark of seeninthecity.co.uk

I am a photographer, writer and traveller with a love of discovering new places, relaxing under sunsets and can’t resist scouring out a good rooftop bar when away! seeninthecity.co.uk

What is your favourite kinda hotel type? Budget, bouji, boutique?

Boutique

Are you loyal to any chains? e.g Hilton, Marriott… Or do you like trying new places?

I like trying new places

What is the first thing you do when you get to your hotel? e.g unpack, room tour, open the mini-bar?

The first thing I do is open every cupboard and drawer and properly explore the place, running around like a madwoman checking I haven’t missed anything! I then like to toast on the balcony with a bottle of wine and check out the view.

What is the best hotel you’ve stayed in and why?

Loews Hotel in Miami, the service was absolutely amazing, views incredible and it was thirty seconds from a white sandy beach. They delivered a local food platter to the food and a make our own mojito kit which was a really nice and unique touch.

Hotel bucket-list? Where is the place you’ve always wanted to stay?

Always wanted to stay in one of the igloo hotels in Iceland or the Tree House Hotel in Sweden

Do you have any websites you use to book your accommodations?

Usually direct, but also Booking.com

Yaya Duran of mydreamality.com

Love new places!

What is your favourite kinda hotel type? Budget, bouji, boutique?

Budget

Are you loyal to any chains? e.g Hilton, Marriott… Or do you like trying new places?

Love new places!

What is the first thing you do when you get to your hotel? e.g unpack, room tour, open the mini-bar?

Jump onto the bed!

What is the best hotel you’ve stayed in and why?

The George Hotel, Huntingdon, Cambridgeshire, UK – 16th century with creaky floorboards and slanted floors and ceilings!

Hotel bucket-list? Where is the place you’ve always wanted to stay?

The Ritz

Do you have any websites you use to book your accommodations?

Trivago.com

Jenna of Jennasworldview.com

Jennasworldview.com – buddy travel is life, solo travel is bae and bouji travel is a lifestyle

What is your favourite kinda hotel type? Budget, bouji, boutique?

Bouji

Are you loyal to any chains? e.g Hilton, Marriott… Or do you like trying new places?

Radisson Blu and Sofitel for me!

What is the first thing you do when you get to your hotel? e.g unpack, room tour, open the mini-bar?

Film the room!

What is the best hotel you’ve stayed in and why?

Sofitel Dubai

Hotel bucket-list? Where is the place you’ve always wanted to stay?

Atlantis Bahamas

Cassie of Cassie Maie

Jewel Jamaica Grande, Montego Bay – received a free upgrade because it was my birthday. The view, spectacular & the room came with complimentary butlers

What is your favourite kinda hotel type? Budget, bouji, boutique?

Bouji & Boutique

Are you loyal to any chains? e.g Hilton, Marriott… Or do you like trying new places?

No, I like to try new places.

What is the first thing you do when you get to your hotel? e.g unpack, room tour, open the mini-bar?

Check the view, followed by room tour

What is the best hotel you’ve stayed in and why?

Jewel Jamaica Grande, Montego Bay – received a free upgrade because it was my birthday. The view, spectacular & the room came with complimentary butlers ☺️

Hotel bucket-list? Where is the place you’ve always wanted to stay?

Maldives

Do you have any websites you use to book your accommodations?

Expedia

Lauren of Blonde Vision

Arts Barcelona – beds are out of this world, service is amazing, good food and cocktails, room standard is the best I’ve seen in a European City for a standard room.

What is your favourite kinda hotel type? Budget, bouji, boutique?

Bouji

Are you loyal to any chains? e.g Hilton, Marriott… Or do you like trying new places?

I’m open.

What is the first thing you do when you get to your hotel? e.g unpack, room tour, open the mini-bar?

Check the room service menu.

What is the best hotel you’ve stayed in and why?

Arts Barcelona – beds are out of this world, service is amazing, good food and cocktails, room standard is the best I’ve seen in a European City for a standard room.

Hotel bucket-list? Where is the place you’ve always wanted to stay?

Over the water villa with a private pool.

Do you have any websites you use to book your accommodations?

Searching every single one for the best rate.

Melis of Melisliving

I love to travel and to fit more trips in the year I am always looking for affordable luxury deals. I like home comforts but I am reasonable with expectations and would quite happily stay in a more basic hotel when I know I won’t spend much time in the room.

What is your favourite kinda hotel type? Budget, bouji, boutique?

Boutique

Are you loyal to any chains? e.g Hilton, Marriott… Or do you like trying new places?

Not loyal! Although I love the Lux chain for a treat!

What is the first thing you do when you get to your hotel? e.g unpack, room tour, open the mini-bar?

Room tour for insta of course haha! Then usually go straight out exploring.

What is the best hotel you’ve stayed in and why?

Lux Mauritius – service out of this world.

Hotel bucket-list? Where is the place you’ve always wanted to stay?

If I revisited Singapore then Marina Bay Sands

Do you have any websites you use to book your accommodations?

Agoda

Yasleen of YasleenTours

Room tour, unpack then take a shower.

What is your favourite kinda hotel type? Budget, bouji, boutique?

Budget

Are you loyal to any chains? e.g Hilton, Marriott… Or do you like trying new places?

I like trying out new places.

What is the first thing you do when you get to your hotel? e.g unpack, room tour, open the mini-bar?

Room tour, unpack then take a shower.

What is the best hotel you’ve stayed in and why?

A hotel in Dubai, the environment was top notch.

Hotel bucket-list? Where is the place you’ve always wanted to stay?

Any Marriott or Hilton hotel.

Mercedes of Notmuchtalk

I’m not loyal. ??I’m most interested in location, price, and great service.

What is your favourite kinda hotel type? Budget, bouji, boutique?

Boutique hotels are usually a happy medium between broken-down budget hotels and everything’s overpriced for no reason luxury hotels.

Are you loyal to any chains? e.g Hilton, Marriott… Or do you like trying new places?

I’m not loyal. ??I’m most interested in the location, price, and great service.

What is the first thing you do when you get to your hotel? e.g unpack, room tour, open the mini-bar?

Check for bed bugs. *Germophobe alert* Then wipe. everything. down. with Lysol wipes. ☣️

What is the best hotel you’ve stayed in and why?

I don’t remember the name but it’s a hotel in the Dongdaemun neighbourhood in Seoul, South Korea. The heated floors in this hotel convinced me that I need heated floors in my future home! It was the fastest way to warm up after braving the brutal winters in South Korea.

Do you have any websites you use to book your accommodations?

Sometimes, I call the hotels directly to book or use their website to book a stay.

Elle of NiteViews

Trying new places

What is your favourite kinda hotel type? Budget, bouji, boutique?

Boutique

Are you loyal to any chains? e.g Hilton, Marriott… Or do you like trying new places?

Trying new places

What is the first thing you do when you get to your hotel? e.g unpack, room tour, open the mini-bar?

Room tour, check cleanliness.

Do you have any websites you use to book your accommodations?

Airbnb, Expedia, Booking.com

Tay of TayTheTravelista

I’m a budget traveler trying to explore the world with my 9-5 and wack paycheck. My blog is www.taythetravelista.com

What is your favourite kinda hotel type? Budget, bouji, boutique?

Budget.

Are you loyal to any chains? e.g Hilton, Marriott… Or do you like trying new places?

Nope I’ll try new places and almost always go with the cheapest one as long as the reviews are good

What is the first thing you do when you get to your hotel? e.g unpack, room tour, open the mini-bar?

Room tour.

What is the best hotel you’ve stayed in and why?

Le Meridien in New Orleans. It was a cute little boutique hotel; Although it’s usually not a big deal for me, I just fell in love with the aesthetics

Hotel bucket-list? Where is the place you’ve always wanted to stay?

I wouldn’t mind trying an all-inclusive resort… on someone else’s dime though.

Do you have any websites you use to book your accommodations?

I love a Hotwire hot rate deal

And Finally…

Char of Memories & Musings

I am a London based travel and lifestyle blogger who believes you don’t need to quit your job to travel the world. I love 6 am flights, cancelled plans, 90s R&B and white wine.

What is your favourite kinda hotel type? Budget, bouji, boutique?

BOUJI ON A BUDGET ALL THE WAY!

Are you loyal to any chains? e.g Hilton, Marriott… Or do you like trying new places?

As Chris Brown would say… “These HO-TELS ain’t loyal”. I like to mix it up and stay at different places (unless its my usual airport Travelodge pre-trip).

What is the first thing you do when you get to your hotel? e.g unpack, room tour, open the mini-bar?

I ALWAYS do a room tour because I need to let everyone know how I’m living back home. However, I only do this on Snapchat as I don’t want to end up on the cast of TAKEN 4.

What is the best hotel you’ve stayed in and why?

Okay so I have two answers for this:
Dubai – The Five Palm had me feeling like IG royalty.
Vegas – The Trump. So I had a very good reason for putting this on the list… but I got upgraded to a suite for free and the bathroom was bigger than my appetite when I hear the word buffet.

Hotel bucket-list? Where is the place you’ve always wanted to stay?

The Shangri La in Paris because the views of the Eiffel tower are insane.

Do you have any websites you use to book your accommodations?

I usually book on Expedia via Quidco as I’ll get cash back and they usually have free cancellation which works out well if I find a better offer.

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